Girls VS. Guys.

So, here are my thoughts today. Have you wondered if guys really do care whether or not they look good? Like, I'm sure guys pick out clothes they want to wear and think about their hairstyle and stuff, but when it doesn't work out or the outfit doesn't look all that good, do they care? Do they start all over and try again, or do they say screw it and just go about their day like nothing happened? When going out for a date, do they sit in front of their closets forever trying to find something suitable to wear? Probably not, they probably only have one or two good date outfits, so they know what they are wearing and don't need to worry. Guys don't need to wear makeup, so they definitely don't need to worry about matching their colors and how to look good without putting too much on...They don't really need to worry about their hair, but sometimes they do anyway. Zits really don't matter as much on guys, but I guess guys must care and do something about them, right? Guys don't need to shave, except their faces. Well, not even then...But I dislike guys with facial hair so there ya go...Brushing their teeth sure but EVERYONE should worry about that.

GIRLS, on the other hand.....We constantly worry about our clothes, hair, makeup, accessories, purses, SHOES, zits, shaving, plucking and reshaping eyebrows, nails, toenails, feet in general because ew and we want our hot shoes to not make our feet look like crap. We will sit in front of our closets for AGES trying to find something to wear, we try many different things on...On date nights we have clothing crisis' that get resolved, and then, we do the same things again in front of the mirror. Is our hair okay? Can I fix it? Is it doomed? How do I make it look like this? Is our makeup okay? Should I change it, does it go? Should I try again? Should I wear makeup at all? Do I need to pluck my eyebrows? Is my skin clear and smooth? Are my teeth white enough should I whiten them? Like, we do SO MUCH, and mostly it's because society expects us to, and guys find us more attractive if we do these things.

It is very taxing on our energy supply to try to look perfect all the time. So if some days your best friend/girlfriend/random hot girl at your school comes in wearing sweatpants, hair up, no makeup, hoodie, sneakers, DO NOT ask her why she doesn't look as good as other days. There are only a few reasons:They woke up late, They didn't feel like it, Their outfit of choice didn't work out, Laundry day, or they feel like shit. And trust me, asking us only leads to us feeling bad and trying harder. Don't do that to us. There are some girls who don't care as much, which is refreshing. Personality should ALWAYS win out over appearances, because if you look at a girl one day out of say 50 and think she is unattractive therefore you won't go for it, you could be missing out on one of the best girls you will ever meet.

Us girls, we are way more than meets the eye. It is true to say guys can be as well, but usually we can tell by the clothes a guy wears what he is like. Girls switch it out so often, wearing so many different styles, that it's near impossible to know who we are. Hell, most of the time we don't even know who we are.

Life is more about creating ourselves, and us girls tend to do a lot of creating. :P

One good thing about girls is we care more about our friends' well-being than our own. We would stay up all night helping a friend in need and not even think twice, but when it comes to ourselves...We can let ourselves go unnoticed because we would rather help someone else. It's the fact that when girls form a bond, they automatically would do anything for that person. We can have as many BFFS as we want, and our sisters become our friends as we grow older. We start to realize all the important things in life as we get older and fighting with our siblings no longer takes as big a hold as it used to.

But when a girl says "I'm fine." Maybe you should dig deeper. Guys actually mean those words, most of the time. Girls? 90% need a hug when they say that.

So even if we don't tell you whats wrong, hug us. Hugs make us happy and can help us feel better without us needing to spill our souls out.

So, girls VS. guys, I vote girls. We do so much every day, and keep on doing it, plus....We are the ones who go through childbirth and keep guys on the planet. :P